Sometimes while I’m sitting there and thinking what to write and nothing comes from my mind, hands and keyboard I start thinking about all my life. This Is one of those moments when I want to write but I feel so empty that can’t do anything. And suddenly I came up with an idea. I was thinking about the past and then 3 things occur to my mind – 5 things I’d wish I knew before.
1.Never regret anything
It doesn’t matter what’s happened in the past – don’t regret it. Everything that came in our life is coming for teaching us something. So open your mind and your heart and give a big hug to everything that happened in your life. If it didn’t happen exactly the same as it is you shouldn’t be the person you are. You are blessed and have to be grateful for everything.
“Never regret anything. Because every little detail of your life is what made you into who you are in the end.”
2.Everything happens in the right place at the right time
No matter how desperately we want something to happen it will happen on time. Not even a second earlier or late. There is some main idea of life which most of the people doesn’t understand but all we need to know is that there is the sun above all of us and everything is happening with purpose. There is nothing accidental. So you have to be peaceful and happy because you are here – breathing, feeling, alive. Live with happy, joy and love because life is the greatest gift.
“If you believe everything happens for a reason, then trust that whatever yоu need will come and go from your life at precisely the right time”
3.We have to take care of your body
If I knew that our body is a mirror of our life I would give him better care. Our bodies are not eternal so we have to carry out about them. If I knew that I wouldn’t smoke and drink. I would give my body more fresh air, more sun rays, more positive emotions. Health is a choice just like happiness.
„If you don‘t care for your body, where will you live?“
4.There’s a lesson that people have to learn
Being here on this planet in this body you have to learn some lessons. Just like at school – life is our school where we all have to take experience and went through different lessons. If I knew that everything that happens in my life is just another lesson I would be more peaceful and calm because I would know that everything happens with a reason.
“I am not someone who is ashamed of my past. I’m actually really proud. I know I made a lot of mistakes, but they, in turn, were my life lessons. “
5.We are not responsible for the others
Everything is a personal choice. So if someone doesn’t want to be happy he will find a reason for his unhappiness. We don’t have to feel responsible for other people exactly for this reason. If we want to do something for someone – that’s fine. But if this “something” didn’t make the person feel good – it’s ok again because that is his own choice which we can’t affect no matter what we do. We are responsible only for us – for our health, body, mind, thoughts. We are responsible to ourselves to be better and better each day. But better by our yesterday version.
“But one of the big lessons I have learned from my journey is you can’t please everyone, so don’t try.”
We have to dream big, smile more and believe in our capabilities. We have the opportunity to make all our dreams come true. We just need to believe. Life is simple and we need to live it with pleasure. And one day when we are older and look back to see full of happy, passion and love life. And there is no place for regret.